Relationships can sometimes be experienced as complicated because we often think or feel that the problem lies with the other. “If only they
would do this or that, then things would be okay” is a statement we
often hear. Sometimes however, you know or feel that the problem (also) lies
with you, but you don’t know where or how to start.
We as individuals have user guidelines, that we might not be fully aware of or that we do not communicate effectively with others. User guidelines in terms of cultural influences, intentions, values we care about, natural talents and our preferences such as communication styles, conflict styles, etc.
All of these have an impact on how we think, feel and act and the outcomes we (co)create. These are important aspects to know about yourself first. From that vantage point you are better able to see the situation, yourself and the other person, enabling you to make choices with a higher chance of achieving your desired goal.
Attending this coaching program will help you:
1) Gain insight into your similarities & differences (via an online personality assessment)
2) Communicate and cooperate effectively with each other
3) See and appreciate yourself and others
4) Build bridges where there is an intentional foundation
5) Learn and practice key principles of having successful relationships
What clients say…
“The sessions with Esther have helped me immensely in finding myself, letting go of weighty baggage from the past, letting go of negative experiences and opening my heart so that resentment loses out against forgiveness and thus find inner peace.
Esther’s positive and calming energy helped me tremendously in discussing topics that had been oppressed for years and were increasingly heavy on the stomach. She gives you the right tools, but above all the right attitude, to tackle emotional issues at the source and thus let the past rest step by step. Despite the fact that I have made great leaps, my self-image has improved enormously and, above all, love myself, I still work on myself every day. Partly thanks to Esther’s coaching and advice, I wake up positively every day and face the day with my head held high.
Highly recommended as far as I am concerned, because my course on the path of life is now overloaded with love and sunshine. Thank you Light Up Your Talent, and of course Esther! Literally life changing!”
“I have experienced the coaching sessions with Esther as very pleasant. I had no idea what to expect from Esther as a coach. After I did the strengthscope, the results weren’t surprising. I have had several training and many feedback sessions to discover and get to know myself. Based on the results of the strengthscope we started the coaching sessions. Esther and me clicked right away and I think that is a condition for the coaching sessions to be successful and for building up a relationship of trust. One of the questions was are the qualities that I have learned or are innate. Surprisingly, I found out together with Esther, who kept asking questions and by listening carefully I found out that a number of qualities were learned by the situation, environment in which you grew up and how you were raised. I had six sessions in which the qualities were well discussed with the result that you were confronted with yourself. As a result of which the sessions made me more aware of how I could make better use of my qualities. I have also become more aware to make better choices and to enjoy your qualities. During one of these sessions we looked back on my life, what were my successes and success factors and what were my lows. What have I learned from it and what qualities have I used to achieve my successes. Esther guided me through that process well and took me back into my life. I am not afraid to look back and I am proud of what I have achieved. Esther helped me to make me aware of my qualities, to be proud of myself, which makes you a happier person. Esther Thank you very much… .. Thank you for your coaching, your feedback, your energy, your positivity, your tips… you have made me a happier person”